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Master Key Week 21: Top 4 Mind Mistake That Screw Up Your Life – Guest Blogger Davene Januszewski

http://mkmmacourse.comBig Mahalo to my lovely bride The Fabulous Davene for guest blogging.

1. Negative Thinking – You’re reading it everywhere now from Reader’s Digest to the Costco magazine for crying out loud, thinking negatively will hurt you. A lot!

Not just hurt your mind but your entire live!!! Maybe it’s even killing you.

Now most people just read that and say, “Oh – OK negative thinking is bad.” Then that’s end of the story. You CAN’T JUST STOP THINKING NEGATIVELY!!!!! You have, I have, we all have in some cases decades of thinking the same way and never, ever trying to change it. But there is not doubt that negative thinking will kill your dreams, your joy, your relationships – EVERYTHING!!!

More that anything right now I really, really wish I could just write something here to help you but it won’t work.

Just like all the books you’ve read and the courses you’ve taken and the seminars, the expensive gurus… OMG $8K or something to go to some tropical place and be told, “you can do it rah rah!” Jeez I’ve met so many nice people who have been ripped off so hard. Makes me sad ūüôĀ

Here is a fact! FACT not my idea about it – Here you go pay attention – It takes hard mental labor to change the way you think. That’s just the way it is so I’ll will give you a solution that will work but it takes work. It’s not point to click to happiness, that doesn’t exist. Click here for Master Key Mastermind Alliance Experience.

Go to that site, there’s NOTHING for sale, and check it out. Caveat though – Sorry we don’t start again till September but it’s your very best chance for happiness.

2. Emotions – I know from personal experience the “Tyranny of Emotions”. The biggest thing here, for me anyway, is resentments, anger and sadness. But don’t think other emotions don’t get in the way, they do.

There are situations that have happened to me that I all of a sudden realize I am reliving in my mind. I have to consciously tell myself to stop thinking about that! After reading some scientific information about how the brain works it seems that I may, alot of us may, suffer from PTSD (Post Tramatic Stress Disorder) if any of us were subjected to violent abusive junk in the past.

So I’m not wearing that moniquer and it compelled me to looked and looked for something to help me forgive. Forgiveness is the answer to PTSD BTW. LOL. I found a really cool technique that is working great for me. It’s not easy, simple yes, but it not easy.

Here goes, when one of these resentments, or whatever causes you to “relive” an unpleasant experience in your life or maybe it’s just pops into your mind, imagine a dear loved one. Get that image in your head, feel the love and take a few deep breaths.

Now imagine the thing you have the resentment at and superimpose the image of the your loved one over the resentment. Use your very powerful imagination for your good. Merge these two thing together and breathe deep. Now let go of the resentment part of the image and just feel the love you have for that dear, dear loved one. Just stay with that love for a few breathes and then bask in your own greatness for doing something so marvelous for yourself.

3. Not Breathing – So many of us just don’t breathe enough! Stop now and take a big cleansing breath. Be aware that when you have stopped breathing, I don’t mean completely cause well you know… I mean most people are taking these tiny shallow breaths and that not enough to live and grow. So be aware, especially when something stressful happens. When people are stressed the first thing they do is stop breathing and you need oxygen even more under stress. So breathe!

4. Not Being in Service – A very wise person told me once, “If something really bad happens get into service immediately!” It may be the very best advise I have ever received.

Listen, bad things happen to everyone it’s part of life. There’s loss, pain, tragedy, disappointment for EVERYONE!!! If you have trouble with this, as I do, then when something strikes that is difficult or downright horrible go help someone else. Then watch the unpleasantness melt away. You’ll be much more likely to deal with whatever is happening if you go help someone who needs help just as much as you do.

There you go.

Mahalo & Aloha for reading.

Davene

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Master Key Week 20, Pieces Coming Together?

THE TEMPTATION

The last few weeks are so exciting for the Guides and Staff that is painful to write a post, incrediblely painful.

Why?

Simple.

Andrei
Andrei

We’re committed to, as facilitators, to “no influence” with the members. ¬† I’m talking to Andrei J the other day, ¬†a member who obviously is digging deep and the “no influence” thing came up. ¬† He said, “you are influencing us,” to which I agreed … we exert every kind of influence we can to get members to “engage” in the exercises, but stay away from the material.

It’s talking to people, kindred spirits like Andrei, who are paying the price, going the extra mile. ¬†That was evident in the conversation but I already knew that from his Week 17HJ¬†post… The Hero’s Journey. ¬†And that causes the pain for me.

IT’S NOT COMPLICATED

You know how, ¬†sometimes you see the prefect gift for someone, [don’t we all wish that happened more often ūüôā ], and you buy it. ¬† Maybe their birthday is two weeks away or Christmas is 10 days away. ¬† And IT’S KILLING YOU!

We know members like Andrei are breaking through, becoming teachers to the staff and Guides…and you want to share something you’ve discovered as badly as you want to give that perfect gift….early.

So I sitting an thinking, as usual, thinking about that universal feeling … I bust into laugher

All choices are simple once we find our truth
All choices are simple once we find our truth

because I realize what I’m really doing is contriving a way in my mind to violate our primary objective – no influence – and, of course, justify it. ¬† So I laugh harder at myself because, let’s face it …we are funniest when we take ourselves most seriously.

Coming out of this 30-ish minute sit, laughing and being grateful for the temptation and what is teaching me…I wonder to my desk and – BAM! ¬†I get this email from Gerhard, another member stretching himself who recently gifted me in the healing process [bad injury] …and in the email is a video clip…

Of greatness….

Of compassion…

Of understanding….

Of overcoming….

Most people won’t see it, really see the connection to the simple idea that we are all connected, harmony…even with enemies….Gerhard saw it and I know Andrei will too…and it satisfied me, ¬†surrounded me with peace of mind. ¬† The universe, eh? ¬† Coming through big time. ¬† It’s not what I wanted to share with Andrei and so many others…it’s better than anything like that…

A most remarkable kid, understanding point 5 of the bluepring builder [ a 5 point document we write out by hand and read daily] without ever having read it. ¬† This kid gets that we are not only all connected but becomes, intuitively, a channel of service….and …

BAM!!

Emerson’s Law, give more get more….shows right up

Giving without expectation….using the simple idea of the greater good to eliminate a justified prejudice….all on point 5 of the bluepring builder.

Mahalo Gerhard and all the members….fuggetabouwtit!

You’ll see countless examples of the things you’ve worked hard to learn and master….letting us all know, if we just let go and live the principles, without expectation of reciprocity….it will surpass anything we could possibly imagine…

Let me know what you see down below in the comments….and let me know if you know it’s already in you, OK?

Update? ¬†Andrei is now clearly focused, a year later on a career path that is remarkable to say the least….simply astonishing to see this educator brusting into the private sector, doing what he loves and making a difference while maintaining excellence as a professor and excelling as a Certified Guide….while lending his expertise to helping reconstruct the ¬†Certified Guides ciriculumn … ¬†not bad plate…help, help, help others and, golly gee, it’s returning over and over and over.

believe

mark j

Mahalo for checking out the Master Key Experience
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